Lessons in life, read weekly

Here's something I received in my inbox earlier and thought I'd share.

This is something we should all read at least

once a week. Make sure you read to the end!

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The

Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the

45 lessons life taught me.

It is the most-requested column I've ever

written."

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so

here is the column once more :

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small

step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating

anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you

are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay

in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree

to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than

crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take

it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your

first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is

futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't

screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You

have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you

shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an

eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful,

beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make

you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy

childhood. But the second one is up to you and

no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love

in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets,

wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a

special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now.... Don't wait for old age

to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but

you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these

words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of

your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time

time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it

will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one

else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not

because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the

most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying

young.

37. Your children get only one childhood..

38. All that truly matters in the end is that

you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are

waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and

saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back...

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have

all you need.

42. The best is yet to come...

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up

and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still

a gift."

Happy trading and Merry Christmas

Kc